The sex lives of both men and women can become stale over time depending on circumstances so why not use some tools and tips for women. Very often, ones sexual nature is evolving and changing over time, meaning that in order to stay at one’s more excited state during the act, it’s important to keep things fresh, exciting and stimulating. The question, however, is what tools and tips are out there to make it happen?
Here are some of the best tools and tips specifically for women to spice things up in the bedroom.
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Start with Sexy Clothing
Changing the way you look for sex can really create some new and exciting feelings between you and your partner. Simple ideas like sexy chemise sets for women, stunning lingerie, and even costumes can create an entirely new dimension to sex that you hadn’t even anticipated before.
When it comes to sexy clothing, the top keywords are revealing, shapely, lacey and scanty. They cover the right things, expose the right things and create a wild and sexy spark in your partner’s imagination about what to do with the rest!
Next comes the realm of sex toys, one which many couples have already explored at length. Toys come in all shapes and sizes, some designed specifically for women, some designed for couples to use in tandem. It’s easy to dismiss sex toys as too extreme because some people give them a bad reputation, but there’s no running from the fact that they can add depths of pleasure and stimulation that you never expected possible before.
If you feel your partner isn’t open to the idea of toys, discuss the idea first and show them some options that perhaps will change their opinion on sex toys being just for the more hardcore or fringe types of sexual contact.
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Erotic Massage
An erotic massage is an incredible way for women in couples to find new ways to enjoy sexual contact. It can serve as an alternative to regular sex, slowly and steadily bringing sexual feeling to a gradual crescendo, giving much more time for a women to enjoy herself. Alternatively, it can be an exciting and stimulating prelude to the main event enjoyed by both parties.
The key to a good erotic massage is getting the right massage oil. Women should look up different products to find those specifically designed to stimulate sexual excitement. Don’t go down the generic massage oil route.
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Role Play
Whether you’re the woman in a heterosexual couple, or one of the women in a same-sex couple, it never hurts to “become someone else” for a fun sexual experience. You might think role playing is a bit cliche, but with the right details and a bit of imagination, it can really reignite sexual passions that you thought were long dormant.
Very often one of the things that makes sex feel stale between a couple is the repetitive nature. If you take on the guise of an alternate female character, the fantasy and imagined unknowns can reawaken that blissfully ignorant spark of erotic wonder that drew you to your partner in the first place.
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Bring in Some Erotica
Women don’t tend to appreciate erotic film as much as men do, but one thing women can do to spice things up might be to surprise their male partner (or female partner, if they’re into it) by watching a sexy movie together. Most men will be taken aback (in a good way) and it could really add something to your sex life.